Sep
08
2009

It's likely your kids want to succeed at school. You can help by constantly checking in with them and giving them a study routine

Andrew and Sabrina, it's the new school year and let's make it a...

Sep
02
2009

In 2008, the median BAC of someone arrested for drunk driving was .16, according to

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Aug
31
2009

The Foundation for Advancing Alcohol Responsibility is currently participating in the Governors Highway Safety Association's Annual Meeting in Savannah, Georgia.

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Aug
26
2009

Another end of summer, another start of the school year.  What better time than now to start your teen off with some thoughtful advice about underage drinking. 

A problem with giving advice as to why underage drinking is not good is that there never does seem to be the right time to do it.  So, frequently that discussion never happens.  So how about doing it now.  Beginning of the school year.  Off to a good start.   Pry them away from their computer, cell phone, iPod, iPhone, whatever.  Don't wait for a good time, because it may never come.

"Jennifer, I want to talk to you about drinking.  This will not take a long time."

"Mom, must we? This is so inconvenient."

It's never convenient for them.

"Yes, we're going to talk about drinking."

"I'm really busy now.  Besides, you know I don't drink."

One strong reason for talking to your teen about drinking is that you can't know for sure that they are not drinking, or are not going to drink.  According to the National Institute of Drug Abuse, the first use of alcohol typically begins around age twelve, and half of 13-15 year olds say they will be faced with making a decision regarding alcohol in the next three months.
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Aug
25
2009

How to fill that awkward silence: 'I love you.' Your teen will hate it - and love it

Tonia is lying on the couch watching television. Her mother comes into the room to look for a pencil, finds one next to the magazines and leaves.

Adam is in his room with the door closed. His parents are both home. Over the course of the next three hours, there are no verbal exchanges between them.

Morgan's dad drops her off at soccer practice. She mumbles "Bye," as she darts out of the car.

Lance, on the way to his room, passes his father in the hallway. No words are spoken between the two.

Once they hit their teens - as part of the normal temporary allergy to parents - a child's end of conversations can all but dry up. It becomes very easy to go through days with virtually no communication, apart from day-to-day business.

"Ryan, don't forget you said you'd take out the recycling."

"Sure, whatever."

Days at a time - maybe even more than days - can go by with no real loving contact between a parent and a teen. Even if your relationship is mostly harmonious, there may still not be a whole lot positive happening.

This is not good.

Let me suggest another way. Let's try the above scenes a little differently.

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